Why Would Someone Say Something Like This – It’s So Rude!

Jul 02

No Blog Bullies AllowedOk excuse the language but I’m pissed! I haven’t blogged in awhile until yesterday. After all the shit that I’ve been going through I haven’t wanted to blog and even though blogging isn’t something ‘huge’ it’s just something in my life that I decided I needed to start making myself do again. And actually I guess to me blogging is huge…I’ve done it for a couple years and this blog has been a huge part of my life, as silly as that sounds.

So anyways….I had a really emotional night last night. Emotional in a good way I suppose. If that makes any sense. I had another one of the dreams that haunt me all too often these days but even after waking up from that I just told myself that today was a new day and things were going to be ok.

I open my email this morning to see that I had a new comment on my blog and I love comments so I was happy…until I opened the damn thing and read it. Not that I’m going to let some random jackass ruin my day but it certainly didn’t start my day very good! Look what this freaking idiot wrote to me…I mean seriously what the hell? What would even possess someone to write something like this on someone’s blog???:

id say your name doesnt fit you at all your a fat ass ugly chick not hott in the least bit i doubt youve ever been out on a date in your life and your probably really hard to love cos theres so much of you that needs lovin

sorry if i hurt your feelings but i just really needed to get my frustration out and i dont even know how i happened upon this site but you were just askin for it with your name and its meanings and then sayin how it fits your lard ass so well i couldnt resist sorry

His comment was in reference to my FridayFun – Does Your Name Fit You post. And it ticks me off that this ass doesn’t have a URL to hit site so I can go check it out. If you are going to bash someone then the least you could do is leave a URL to your site. What a dink.

What ever happened to the “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all” that our mother’s taught us when we were so little? I know there used to be a button floating around that said no blog bullies and if I could find it I’d have another button to add but I don’t remember where I saw it at.

Edited to Add: Thanks Teressa for providing me with the link to Alice’s no blog bullies button!

11 comments

  1. Just blow it of sweetie. He obviously has nothing better to do with his time then to go around and bash people to make himself feel good.

    Brunette’s last blog post..The Halls of justice

  2. Anyone that bashes anyone else publicly on the Internet has some major problems.

    Oh and that button is on Alice Seba’s blog. :)

    Amanda Petite Mommy’s last blog post..When Families Come Together I Fall Apart

  3. That is weird for someone to leave a comment like that. Must have been a silly teenager. Let’s hope it wasn’t a grown person leaving an ignorant comment like that.

    God bless him.

    Marguerite – momsherbs’s last blog post..Celebration of the birth of our granddaughter!

  4. He definitely has issues. What a jerk and a wuss for not leaving a link. I know his nasty comment pulls at you since you are having a rough time lately but just let this one go. You know we love you and think you are a beautiful person inside and out so don’t sweat this one. Just know that this guy has big problems and will get what’s due to him in time.

    Angie’s last blog post..Friday Feast

  5. I seriously think people have lost their ever loving minds. This is the second blog I have read this week where some jerk has left a nasty comment. Why would you do that? What is there to gain by saying something mean about or to someone? Good heavens peace and love people.

    Jess’s last blog post..Reading Material Needs Improvement

  6. Teressa /

    The nerve of some people.. Wonder where he got his manners from? Its really a shame that for some people it takes putting someone else down to make them feel better about themselves.. He must have incredibly low self esteem.. I know it sounds foolish, but I almost feel sorry for him..
    Of course, you know me.. I found u the tag..

    http://www.internetmarketingsweetie.com/blog/2007/08/just-for-little-fun-ban-bullies-liars/

  7. What a silly, childish, mean thing to do. Obviously this person has some mental problems.

    You are a beautiful person Tishia, inside and out!

    Yolanda’s last blog post..Do You Love What You Do?

  8. Oh my word. Tishia – what a jerk off! I’m sorry hun.

    casual friday everyday’s last blog post..Tell Me You?re There

  9. Hi Tishia,
    I came across your blog via a twitter post from a mutual follower. Sorry to hear about the ‘blog bullies’. I guess that is one reason I tend to not get too personal on my blog…but then again I don’t know if that makes a difference…some people are just mean and cruel and have nothing better to do but take their anger out on others.
    Take care…
    Patty ☺

    Patty’s last blog post..Who will care for your children if something were to happen to you and your spouse?

  10. Try to ignore it Tishia. You’re beautiful and this idiot must have had a really bad childhood.

    Carrie at Natural Moms Talk Radio’s last blog post..Wahm Stuff: Interview and Recipes for Your Blog

  11. OMG Tishia. This just burns me up. Obiviously this person had problems and they are not right in their own life so they want to bring others down with them.

    You are very beautiful on the inside and out and I’m proud to know you as well!

    Karma will get them believe me!

    Jen @ One Moms World’s last blog post..I Love To Clean My Bathroom

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