The Jerk Finally Responded
Feb 16
OMG MEN! At this moment right now I hate them. And if one more person tells me be patient and continue to wait on God I’m gonna scream or puke or throw something. I’m sick of hearing it. You’ve all been telling me that for years now. And I can honestly say that after YEARS of waiting for the ONE thing I’ve truly desired in my life (marriage) telling me to continue to wait only hurts me it doesn’t help me! It makes me mad that people are getting married all around me but I can’t have that one thing that I’ve wanted since I was in high school. It’s not fair and it hurts.
But that’s besides the point…back to the point of the post.
If you read yesterday’s post I Made a Really Big Mistake you know how upset I was about the events of the last few days with my so called “boyfriend”. Yesterday I was hurt that he didn’t even bother to respond to a text message I sent telling him I was hurt about things.
Well I guess he decided he should respond because finally today I get a response from him:
I wanted to take my time to reply to you. First let me say sorry if your feelings were hurt. I believe it is time for us to not continue doing what were doing (can he not say the word DATE???? I mean seriously!). You deserve someone that supports you emotionally and physically. So I wish you the best of luck in your search. Take care.
I won’t even bother to tell you what I responded to him because it wasn’t pretty. And the words take care? Was that supposed to make me feel better? I mean really. Puuuuuhlease!
Woo Hoo one more failed relationship to add to my list.
I honestly wouldnt have even responded! He wasnt worth the cost of the text!
Ok please dont puke or throw something at me but you are no one step closer to THE ONE!
I know it sucks – really I do! All I can say is chin up, have some wine (or a bottle) and feel the hurt, then get up and keep moving!
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Tishia,
I agree with Laura—he isn’t worth a response. If it’s any consolation (which it probably isn’t), it’s a good thing you found out now instead of later. You see, I spent A LOT of years thinking I was in love when, in essence, we were just in LUST and I have thought about all those wasted years knowing I can never make them up.
But you know what? Just when I came to the conclusion that I could go it alone and didn’t need a man, my Prince Charming came along and I am happier that I ever was in my first marriage.
Hang in there!
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What, are we in highschool all of the sudden? Breaking up over text? DORK!
I’m sorry he hurt you hun.
I pray you find your soul mate.
Nell
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Jerk is right! Sorry sweety.. Obviously, he didn’t deserve you.
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There’s nothing I can say or do that won’t make you puke or throw something at me. =(
~Hugs~
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Thank you ladies for your comments. I appreciate the kind words. I’m doing muc better today. I guess I just needed a ‘cool off’ phase. And it is his loss – what an idiot cause I’m an awesome woman and have tons to offer
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I think you handled yourself very well Tishia and he is certainly a gutless ass if you ask me…you deserve respect and he didn’t give it to you. I know this guy hurt you but I hope that you have enough strength now to never shed a tear for this jerk again!
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