….right?

Even when it pertains to matters of the heart?

Do you ever tell yourself something over and over and over only because if you do it long enough you start to believe it whether it’s true or not? But others around you know that what you’re telling yourself isn’t true. And then suddenly the truth is coming out and confusing not only you but those around you!

And ladies this one’s for you cause I could use your insight and help right now! Have you ever loved a man that didn’t reciprocate those feelings and no matter what you did you just couldn’t stop loving him and instead of being honest to him and most importantly yourself you tell yourself over and over you’ve moved on and you’re ok with things and you’ve let him go but you really haven’t? It’s just easier to “lie” to yourself, him and others around you because people just don’t understand how you can care so deeply for someone that doesn’t return those feelings and instead of trying to explain and make people understand it’s just easier to act like you’re fine but then all of a sudden something happens and everything just comes out causing confusion to more than just yourself because you’ve “lied” about the entire situation to begin with?

I believe everything happens for a reason even when it comes to matters of the heart but I’ll be darned if I can figure out the reason behind this situation. I thought I had it all figured out…boy was I wrong. Very wrong.